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The Ally You Think You Are (And the One You Actually Need to be)
A candid look at the gap between intending to be an ally and doing the everyday work that actually supports trans people.
Apr 57 min read


We Need to Talk About How we Support Each Other
A reflection on the strength of the transgender community—and the gaps that still exist in how we support one another beyond visibility and advocacy.
Mar 314 min read


What to Say (and What Absolutely Not to Say) to a Transgender Person
A practical, plain-English guide to speaking respectfully with transgender people, including what helps, what harms and why simple courtesy goes a long way.
Mar 316 min read


The Fear of Hurting Others: One of the Strongest Barriers to Transition
Many transgender people delay transition not from uncertainty, but from love, responsibility and fear of hurting the people closest to them.
Mar 296 min read


Waiting For a Referral to a Gender Identity Clinic
Waiting for a Gender Identity Clinic referral can feel like life on hold, but many people use the time to build community, prepare for next steps and protect their mental health.
Mar 213 min read


How Do Transgender People in the UK Feel About Having to Use Facilities That Match Their Birth Sex?
UK trans people describe birth-sex bathroom mandates as humiliating, unsafe, and dignity-stripping—forcing daily anxiety, avoidance, and hypervigilance in ordinary spaces.
Mar 44 min read


How Can You Support a Transgender Person Who Has Made the Decision to Transition?
Practical guide: 5 ways to support a transitioning friend—believe them, use correct pronouns, ask thoughtfully, check in naturally, offer quiet backup. Empathy > expertise.
Mar 34 min read
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