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The Dummy: Understanding Transgender Identity Beyond Misconceptions
When a simple comment about mannequins exposed the deeper truth of transgender longing — it's about alignment and authenticity, not artificial imitation.
Apr 65 min read


The Ally You Think You Are (And the One You Actually Need to be)
A candid look at the gap between intending to be an ally and doing the everyday work that actually supports trans people.
Apr 57 min read


The Conversation That Changes Everything (And Doesn't Have to End It)
Coming out to a partner can be frightening and disorienting, but it does not automatically mean the end of a relationship; sometimes it becomes the beginning of something more honest and real.
Apr 17 min read


We Need to Talk About How we Support Each Other
A reflection on the strength of the transgender community—and the gaps that still exist in how we support one another beyond visibility and advocacy.
Mar 314 min read


What to Say (and What Absolutely Not to Say) to a Transgender Person
A practical, plain-English guide to speaking respectfully with transgender people, including what helps, what harms and why simple courtesy goes a long way.
Mar 316 min read


More Than Just Letters - What LGBTQIA+ Actually Means
A simple, clear guide to what LGBTQIA+ means, with each letter explained in plain language and the plus sign placed in its proper context.
Mar 306 min read


The Fear of Hurting Others: One of the Strongest Barriers to Transition
Many transgender people delay transition not from uncertainty, but from love, responsibility and fear of hurting the people closest to them.
Mar 296 min read


Can You Really Understand What It’s Like to be Transgender? From my Lived Experience
Most people genuinely can't imagine the transgender experience from the inside - and that's okay. This post explores why lived experience differs fundamentally from empathy, and why listening matters more than assuming you understand.
Mar 277 min read


How to Talk to a GP About Hormones Without It Turning Into a Defensive Standoff
Talking to your GP about hormones can feel intimidating, but with clarity, preparation and a collaborative approach, the conversation can become a joint effort to support your wellbeing rather than a defensive standoff.
Mar 254 min read


How Can You Support a Transgender Person Who Has Made the Decision to Transition?
Practical guide: 5 ways to support a transitioning friend—believe them, use correct pronouns, ask thoughtfully, check in naturally, offer quiet backup. Empathy > expertise.
Mar 34 min read
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